It's also against policy to allow seeking mental health help to impact career. It's illegal to discriminate against a gay servicemember. We know military culture isn't exactly gay and mental health help friendly. He's at LEAST bisexual, possibly homosexual, he's a serial cheater, and I guarantee you he only feels 'remorse' and 'guilt' because he got caught, not because of what he did.Īlso, if he's worried therapy will impact his military career he knows damn well being gay would. Marriages between people who are under 25 have a much higher than average rate of failure. Military marriages have an extremely high infidelity rate. I’m sorry that this is long but I don’t have many people in my life I can tell this to without scarring his reputation. I feel so stupid for getting myself in this situation and I’m unsure how to get past this or take steps to trust him again. I told him he needs to go to therapy either with me or on his own but he is resistant, saying it could damage his military career. Overall he has been very remorseful and regretful about what he did but doesn’t seem to want to take steps to change. I won’t let him touch me or have sex with me for now so he’s getting angry about that. It’s been about 3 days since I found out and everything just seems bleak. Just to be clear my issue is not with the fact it was men, it’s that he cheated. We are a pretty young couple so getting married so early was a little scary for me. He has several emails, as well as accounts on websites similar to Craigslist where he posted ads looking to Skype with men, and not only that but he sent nude pictures of me and us to these people without my permission or knowledge.

I recently found out my husband of 5 months has been sexting with men for years, throughout the entirety of our dating relationship and our marriage.

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